Holiday Gift Ideas For Her: 15 Perfect Presents for That New Dating Relationship

Black Friday is here, and with it, the winter holiday season has officially arrived. Today, people everywhere begin stressing about their holiday gift lists. But what do you get for that someone special you've just started dating? Whether you’re camping out in line at the store or sitting in front of your computer looking for the perfect Black Friday sale, finding a gift for someone new in your life can be challenging. You want to give a thoughtful gift that says, "I'm into you," without coming on too strong. Here's a list of 15 thoughtful but casual holiday gift ideas for the woman you're just starting to date (and might want to get more serious with in the future).

1. Cozy accessories: Give them mittens, a scarf, or a hat in a color you know they love to keep them warm all winter. Winter accessories are practical and thoughtful, especially if you notice her style.

2. A classy scented candle: A high-quality candle with a subtle, welcoming fragrance can set a cozy, intimate mood.

3. Gourmet chocolates or sweets: This classic gift is a safe bet. Opt for a box from a high-end chocolatier to add a touch of luxury.

4. A unique book: If she loves to read, show that you pay attention by finding a book that aligns with her interests or a bestseller in a genre she enjoys.

5. A fun cooking class experience: If she loves cooking or is eager to learn, a cooking class can be a fun and interactive experience to share.

6. A gift card to her favorite small business: A gift card to that cute local coffee shop or bookstore she frequents supports a good cause and her interests.

7. Self-care gift basket: Pamper her with cozy slippers, bath bombs, lotions, face masks, scented oil, and chocolate. A curated spa kit can offer her a relaxing experience at home.

8. A personalized mug: A mug with a fun quote or her name on it (maybe even an inside joke), coupled with her favorite coffee or hot chocolate mix, can be a sweet and personal gift. If you’ve already had a few dates, you can upload special photos together and have a shop print them on the mug.

9. Ticket to upcoming concert, show, or museum: Give them an experience to look forward to by getting tickets to an event featuring something they like.

10. A beautiful plant: A low-maintenance houseplant like a succulent or a peace lily shows thoughtfulness and adds a touch of nature to her space.

11. Quality coffee or tea sampler: For the caffeine lover, a selection of gourmet coffee blends or exotic teas can be a perfect gift.

12. Customized jewelry: A piece of jewelry that isn’t too extravagant, like a simple bracelet or necklace with her initial, shows thought without being too intense.

13. An artistic puzzle: A puzzle with a beautiful design can be a fun, low-key gift, especially if it's something you can put together on a future date night.

14. A Polaroid camera: This is a classic gift and is perfect for capturing moments together without the pressure of a more expensive present.

15. Travel game, conversation starter card set or puzzle: Give her something fun you can do together on cozy nights in.

This holiday season, pick a personal, casual gift that shows how much you care without overwhelming your new crush. These gifts strike the right balance between showing your growing affection and respecting the early stage of your relationship.

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